As stated before, I encourage you to read ahead in the book
of Proverbs, and not hurriedly, as these words deserve your attention and
reflection.
Chapter 4
This entire chapter speaks of the obligations of the father
and the son in every family. The
father’s obligation is to teach the son wisdom and the importance of pursuing
it throughout his life. The obligation
of the son is to pay strict attention to the teachings of his father, plus be
prepared to pass it along to his own sons in the future. In this chapter you often see phrases that
plead and remind the son to “pay attention; listen; accept what I say; do not
forsake my teaching”. This is not to
suggest that the son was inclined to trivialize the father’s teachings, or that
his mind was inclined to wander. But
rather, the father was continually emphasizing the importance of the subject of
wisdom. This chapter, like much of
Proverbs, compares the wise to the foolish.
In verses 5 and 6 you will also notice that the writer refers to wisdom
in the feminine person, using “her” and “she” as the pronouns when referencing
wisdom. This has been used in earlier
chapters and we will see it again. One
scholar suggests that the writer is comparing wisdom to a woman saying that
wisdom, like a woman, deserves our love.
And, like a precious woman, wisdom will protect you and watch over you.
Chapter 5
There are so many men that should have read this chapter of
Proverbs. This chapter is dedicated to
warning against involvement with an adulterous woman. It starts out with the father pleading with
the son to pay attention to these words, as they can have a positive effect on
his entire life. Verse 3 tells how
alluring a woman can be. “Her lips taste
as sweet as honey.” She is a flatterer
in that “her speech is smoother than oil”.
But your involvement with her will end in disaster. You are to stay far from her. Do not enter her house and give ear to her
words, as they may be stronger than you can bear. Also, in verse 9, it says that your dignity
will be damaged as others will learn of your weakness. Verses 10-14 describe what will happen as a
result of yielding to the temptation of a woman who is not your wife. Then, in verse 15 it advises the young man to
embrace his own wife. Treat the wife of
your youth with the love, affection, and respect she deserves, and she will
reward you with her Godly womanhood, blessing you with wonderful children (vs
18). I like 19b speaking of the faithful
wife: “may you ever be intoxicated with
her love”. Then, to emphasize the point
he asks rhetorical questions about “why should one be so foolish to involve
himself in an adulterous affair?” {We
will continue to see this subject of adultery throughout this book.}
Chapter 6
This chapter is in three parts, the first fifteen verses of
which addresses specific sins, against which we should be on guard. The second part is the infamous list of the
six things God hates. The third part,
which carries into chapter 7, again addresses adultery.
6:1-5 speaks of a mistake that has already been made, and is
comparing the mistake being like an animal caught in a trap, struggling to get
out, but the trap is too strong. The
mistake mentioned here is signing your name as security for a neighbor’s loan. Sounds like a nice gesture, but the Bible is
very clear on this: DON’T DO IT. It’s that simple. If you ever get pressured to do this, simply
refer to the Bible and say it is forbidden.
Verses 6-11 changes subjects abruptly.
It speaks of laziness, using the ant as a good example to follow. Be wise about this my son. We have seen all around us that verse 11 is
true that “poverty will come on you like a thief……” Verses 12-15 warn us to
stay away from evil people. They are
sneaky and alluring. They are easy to
recognize by the things they do and speak about. These four verses are a good lead-in to the
next four, as they seem to be interjected abruptly into the text. These verses (16-19) state six things God
hates:
* A haughty heart (a blatantly and disdainfully proud and arrogant person)
* A lying tongue (it is never OK to lie)
* Hands that shed innocent blood (God punishes this)
* A heart that devises wicked schemes
* A false witness (in the gates of the cities; perverts justice)
* A troublemaker (can’t stand when there is peace among people)
* A haughty heart (a blatantly and disdainfully proud and arrogant person)
* A lying tongue (it is never OK to lie)
* Hands that shed innocent blood (God punishes this)
* A heart that devises wicked schemes
* A false witness (in the gates of the cities; perverts justice)
* A troublemaker (can’t stand when there is peace among people)
The Bible is clear on this.
These six things are listed as absolutes, not to be compromised or
over-paraphrased. Think on these six
things. Remember, God HATES them. (Don’t forget which one was number one on the
list. Your mother always said “Pride
cometh before the fall”}
Verses 20-35 of this chapter speaks again of adultery. Please read these verses with
concentration. Verse 26 tells that a
prostitute can be bought for a cheap price, but another man’s wife will cost
you dearly, probably for the rest of your life.
{This scripture is certainly not condoning the involvement with a
prostitute, but rather stating that adultery with another man’s wife is
hundreds times worse.} It says in verses
27-29 that disaster is certain when adultery is committed, even by a righteous
man. The Scripture goes on to say that a
thief is not as bad as an adulterer.
Think on this. The worst things one can steal are those things which cannot be given back.
Chapter 7 continues with adultery being the main
subject. Overkill? Absolutely not! Adultery destroys marriages, which means it
also destroys families. Look what
happens to a society when families are weakened, let alone destroyed. This subject cannot be overdone.
This will be my final
post until after the holidays. I
sincerely wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. If and when you travel, please be careful.